Well friends, things have been going smoothly here in the Holton household. During our week down in Eugene this month Ricky officially began his new career. Woohoo! I had planned on being productive with my time while we were there but I realized it was just too soon to look for housing/employment for me, so instead I played with friends.
September brought with it an unusual allotment of sunshiny days here in Seattle. I keep waking up in the morning expecting to need a coat and boots but I keep being wrong. I don't like to be wrong and I don't like to be too hot outside in autumn. Yes, I am probably one of very few souls who actually prays for it to cool down, be overcast and act like the PNW that I'm used to. Along with those too-blue-for-their-own-good skies, September brought a new season of football for our Ducks as well as the start of Ricky's LAST term in grad school. I like both of those things. I am so proud of my dear husband for plowing through his program with such rapidity and for doing so well.
This time of year tends to seduce many of us northwesters into over-zealous lounging and eating. When it (usually) starts to get cold and rainy and dark we sit around, eat cookies and watch reruns of our favorite tv shows. I personally tend to bake more and grow sedentary. If I'm going to put on extra weight, now is the time of year it will happen. Fortunately we are going to break up the monotonous weather with a trip to Hawaii (which I know I've mentioned once or five times) in December. Unfortunately I don't want to have put on my winter layer just in time to put on a bathing suit. So, I've taken up swimming. Swimming is exactly the low-impact, whole-body work-out I need. But I suck at swimming. Seriously, I was really self-conscious on the first day because I was convinced that the life guard was watching me more than other people because she thought I was going to drown. I don't really blame her. I feel like I look like a sloth that is just doing everything it can not to sink before it gets to the other side of the pool. Okay, maybe I'm not that bad but I'm definitely not related to Michael Phelps. Anyways, I've been swimming three days a week at the local pool for the past two weeks and I plan on keeping it up. It's difficult but I'm going to keep doing it. Check me out in 2.5 months, hopefully I won't look any fatter. ;)
Sunday, September 30, 2012
Friday, September 7, 2012
New Toy
We bought a new toy last week, it's a camera. It's a fancy camera. We are super excited about being able to take great photos (once we learn how to use all the functions). Although our new toy was pricey, we are glad we will have it for our vacations in the upcoming year as well as all of the other exciting moments in our future lives.
This week we went all around Discovery Park, to Pike Place Market and the Vancouver, CA Aquarium to test drive the camera. Here are some of the photos we took, what do you think?
This week we went all around Discovery Park, to Pike Place Market and the Vancouver, CA Aquarium to test drive the camera. Here are some of the photos we took, what do you think?
Monday, September 3, 2012
Point Defiance
A few weeks ago we took a little trip down to Tacoma and visited the Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium. As far as zoos go it was pretty small (I'm basing this off of Portland Zoo and Woodland Park Zoo size). Despite its small size we saw some really neat animals that we don't usually get the opportunity to see.
The star of the day was definitely Tilly the ardvark. In this photo she's asleep but later we saw her use her long tongue to lick yogurt out of a bottle and she walked on a leash!
We also saw a beaver walking around the zoo on a leash. It was awesome and cute. Point Defiance Zoo had a lot of interesting extra things going on. It had animals that weren't in enclosures that zoo staff were showing people. Another one was this ancient tortoise.
We saw two adorable clouded leopard cubs and two red wolf pups. There were also two sumatran tigers, one of which was a week away from giving birth and the other one (in the photo) who put on a show for us. The tiger did something that Lucy does all of the time--it got up, walked around, ate a bunch of grass and then barfed. It was the most action I've ever seen from a tiger at the zoo.
The best part of our trip was the presentation we went to in the afternoon. The two-toed sloth, barn owl, vulture, bald eagle, parrot, iguana and other stars of the show were spectacular. The barn owl flew so close to the top of my head I could easily have touched it. I was so excited I almost peed and definitely got teary.
Overall it was not my favorite zoo I've ever been to but it had some really great attributes and I'm super glad we went.
This peacock came to bid us farewell as we walked back to the car.
The star of the day was definitely Tilly the ardvark. In this photo she's asleep but later we saw her use her long tongue to lick yogurt out of a bottle and she walked on a leash!
The best part of our trip was the presentation we went to in the afternoon. The two-toed sloth, barn owl, vulture, bald eagle, parrot, iguana and other stars of the show were spectacular. The barn owl flew so close to the top of my head I could easily have touched it. I was so excited I almost peed and definitely got teary.
Overall it was not my favorite zoo I've ever been to but it had some really great attributes and I'm super glad we went.
This peacock came to bid us farewell as we walked back to the car.
Thursday, August 30, 2012
The "A" Word
A is for apple.
A is for alligator.
A is for Argentina.
I'm not planning on discussing apples, alligators or Argentinians in this post. Bummer.
Have you guessed it yet?
Yep, I'm going to talk about a topic that none of us really enjoy and that most of us avoid discussing.
Abortion.
I've been meaning to write a post about abortion for several months now. Since the republican party and Paul Ryan have pulled it to the forefront of political discussions and there was a post about it on FMH today I can't put it off any longer.
Since the topic of abortion was first brought to my attention in early high school I have been trying to decide what my stance is about the issue. First of all, it seems like the word "stance" doesn't fully describe this most sensitive topic. Regardless, my "stance" represents the conclusion that I've decided on after years of careful contemplation.
So, I'm Mormon. You all probably already know that. Like most Christian denominations, in Mormonism abortion is a big fat no-no. It's such a no-no that nobody ever discusses it at all. So, as a teenager I also thought that abortion was an evil-awful-no-good thing that only awful people did. As I've grown older, wiser and become aware of my feminist tendencies I've changed my mind. I still think that abortion is a no-good thing but I think most people, even the extreme pro-choice representatives, think that too.
Is it possible to be pro-choice and pro-life at the same time? I hope so, if not you'll have to commit me to an asylum because I've had my brain addled.
Here's why I'm pro-life: I think that a baby is a baby even when it's just a teeny thing growing inside of someone. I think that all of life should have a fair shot at living (thus my environmentalism). I think that there are spirits in Heaven waiting to come to Earth and get a body. I think that a lot of abortions happen out of fear and lack of education. There are many other options, both pre and post-conception, other than abortion.
Here's why I'm pro-choice: I believe that I have the right to control (to the best of my ability) what is happening inside my body. I want women in this country to be empowered. I don't think that women should have to bear the burdens of pregnancy if they have been the victims of rape, incest, or some other terrible situation (how is this not obvious to some people?). Sometimes the situation is just wrong. Not every woman in every environment is healthy or stable enough to endure a pregnancy and no person can decide that but them.
As you can see, I am sympathetic to both sides of this issue but I think there is more to the story. The culture around sex in this country is screwy (no pun intended). All of our advertisements are sex-centric but we also villianize any sex education other than "abstinence only." Basically the message we send to teens is, "Sex is the pan-ultimate, most desirable thing around but you have to stay away from it for a long time or else you'll get pregnant and have nasty STD's." News flash people: sex is going to happen, teen sex is going to happen, (even in Mormon culture)! In the climate we have created, young men and women are confused, ashamed, and too afraid to seek help before they have a problem.
But what can we do about this impossible situation?
For starters we can educate our children. The first step to solving the abortion problem is avoiding unwanted pregnancies. Abstinence-only education is a farce and does not help reduce abortion rates. We need to teach children, especially women, how their bodies really work and the reasons why they work that way. Teach them that sex is an important physical and emotional part of life. Instead of putting it on a warped pedestal, teach them that it is normal. Most importantly, arm them with the decision-making skills and the knowledge and tools they need to be safe, regardless of their choices.
The next step is to make access to birth control actually accessible. Birth control, in its wide array of methods, along with good women's health care should be easy, safe, and inexpensive to get for everyone--even teenagers. People that are pro-life need to get behind this idea if they really want to save those unborn fetuses.
There should be more help. Seriously. Women that are pregnant but that don't want to keep the child should be offered lots of assistance so that they can carry the baby to term and adopt it out. Similarly, adoption should be way easier for birth parents and adoptive parents all around.
All of the things I outlined above will help reduce the need for abortion. I tend to consider them common sense, but hey, that's just me. Unfortunately, there will still be situations where abortion is considered. If the pregnancy is a result of rape or incest and that woman wants an abortion, I say she should be allowed an abortion. If the pregnancy is causing serious risks to the mother's health, she should be allowed an abortion. Sometimes a woman will just plain want an abortion, no convincing her otherwise. While I don't like it at all, I think that she should be allowed an abortion too. History has shown us what will happen if we outlaw abortions, abortions will still happen but they will be back-alley style. Back-alley abortions are dangerous and women will die. How can we be pro-life if we are promoting an ideal that results in women's deaths? It's best to have everything out in the open in the light of day where we can at least moniter the safety of all involved.
If you've read through this post and you still align yourself Paul Ryan and think that abortion should be completely illegal, I'm sorry. Please remember that we all, you included, cherish our rights and freedoms. Please remember that abortion is a big deal and that no woman makes the choice to have an abortion lightly. It's difficult and sad but women that choose to abort do so because they are making the decision that they feel is best for all involved. Remember to respect other people's decisions and to always tread softly.
That's what I have to say about that. If that post made you feel uncomfortably squeamish, I apologize. I promise that my next post will be filled with cheeriness and animals.
A is for alligator.
A is for Argentina.
I'm not planning on discussing apples, alligators or Argentinians in this post. Bummer.
Have you guessed it yet?
Yep, I'm going to talk about a topic that none of us really enjoy and that most of us avoid discussing.
Abortion.
I've been meaning to write a post about abortion for several months now. Since the republican party and Paul Ryan have pulled it to the forefront of political discussions and there was a post about it on FMH today I can't put it off any longer.
Since the topic of abortion was first brought to my attention in early high school I have been trying to decide what my stance is about the issue. First of all, it seems like the word "stance" doesn't fully describe this most sensitive topic. Regardless, my "stance" represents the conclusion that I've decided on after years of careful contemplation.
So, I'm Mormon. You all probably already know that. Like most Christian denominations, in Mormonism abortion is a big fat no-no. It's such a no-no that nobody ever discusses it at all. So, as a teenager I also thought that abortion was an evil-awful-no-good thing that only awful people did. As I've grown older, wiser and become aware of my feminist tendencies I've changed my mind. I still think that abortion is a no-good thing but I think most people, even the extreme pro-choice representatives, think that too.
Is it possible to be pro-choice and pro-life at the same time? I hope so, if not you'll have to commit me to an asylum because I've had my brain addled.
Here's why I'm pro-life: I think that a baby is a baby even when it's just a teeny thing growing inside of someone. I think that all of life should have a fair shot at living (thus my environmentalism). I think that there are spirits in Heaven waiting to come to Earth and get a body. I think that a lot of abortions happen out of fear and lack of education. There are many other options, both pre and post-conception, other than abortion.
Here's why I'm pro-choice: I believe that I have the right to control (to the best of my ability) what is happening inside my body. I want women in this country to be empowered. I don't think that women should have to bear the burdens of pregnancy if they have been the victims of rape, incest, or some other terrible situation (how is this not obvious to some people?). Sometimes the situation is just wrong. Not every woman in every environment is healthy or stable enough to endure a pregnancy and no person can decide that but them.
As you can see, I am sympathetic to both sides of this issue but I think there is more to the story. The culture around sex in this country is screwy (no pun intended). All of our advertisements are sex-centric but we also villianize any sex education other than "abstinence only." Basically the message we send to teens is, "Sex is the pan-ultimate, most desirable thing around but you have to stay away from it for a long time or else you'll get pregnant and have nasty STD's." News flash people: sex is going to happen, teen sex is going to happen, (even in Mormon culture)! In the climate we have created, young men and women are confused, ashamed, and too afraid to seek help before they have a problem.
But what can we do about this impossible situation?
For starters we can educate our children. The first step to solving the abortion problem is avoiding unwanted pregnancies. Abstinence-only education is a farce and does not help reduce abortion rates. We need to teach children, especially women, how their bodies really work and the reasons why they work that way. Teach them that sex is an important physical and emotional part of life. Instead of putting it on a warped pedestal, teach them that it is normal. Most importantly, arm them with the decision-making skills and the knowledge and tools they need to be safe, regardless of their choices.
The next step is to make access to birth control actually accessible. Birth control, in its wide array of methods, along with good women's health care should be easy, safe, and inexpensive to get for everyone--even teenagers. People that are pro-life need to get behind this idea if they really want to save those unborn fetuses.
There should be more help. Seriously. Women that are pregnant but that don't want to keep the child should be offered lots of assistance so that they can carry the baby to term and adopt it out. Similarly, adoption should be way easier for birth parents and adoptive parents all around.
All of the things I outlined above will help reduce the need for abortion. I tend to consider them common sense, but hey, that's just me. Unfortunately, there will still be situations where abortion is considered. If the pregnancy is a result of rape or incest and that woman wants an abortion, I say she should be allowed an abortion. If the pregnancy is causing serious risks to the mother's health, she should be allowed an abortion. Sometimes a woman will just plain want an abortion, no convincing her otherwise. While I don't like it at all, I think that she should be allowed an abortion too. History has shown us what will happen if we outlaw abortions, abortions will still happen but they will be back-alley style. Back-alley abortions are dangerous and women will die. How can we be pro-life if we are promoting an ideal that results in women's deaths? It's best to have everything out in the open in the light of day where we can at least moniter the safety of all involved.
If you've read through this post and you still align yourself Paul Ryan and think that abortion should be completely illegal, I'm sorry. Please remember that we all, you included, cherish our rights and freedoms. Please remember that abortion is a big deal and that no woman makes the choice to have an abortion lightly. It's difficult and sad but women that choose to abort do so because they are making the decision that they feel is best for all involved. Remember to respect other people's decisions and to always tread softly.
That's what I have to say about that. If that post made you feel uncomfortably squeamish, I apologize. I promise that my next post will be filled with cheeriness and animals.
Monday, August 27, 2012
Goodbye, Reginald
Well folks, it's been a while since I mentioned Reginald, my ovarian cyst. I've been waiting for three months to find out if he would go away on his own or if we would have to remove him. Fortunately today I had another ultrasound and it was Reginald free! Hooray!
Even though they can't tell on an ultrasound, my doctors have been throwing the word "endometriosis" around a lot lately. They are thinking that it may be the cause of my persistent and awful cramps. Unfortunately the only way to really diagnos it is through laparoscopic surgery. I'm meeting a new gynocologist on Thursday who is supposed to talk to me about all of my options at this point. I think that they tend not to like to do very invasive things to women who are wanting to conceive in the semi-near future, but we'll see.
For the time being I am cyst-free and glad of it. To celebrate I laid in bed and read all day, doing absolutely nothing productive. I can't even remember the last time I did that. Now I have to go babysit a little girl accross the street, maybe she'll want to have a going away party for Reginald? Maybe not...
Even though they can't tell on an ultrasound, my doctors have been throwing the word "endometriosis" around a lot lately. They are thinking that it may be the cause of my persistent and awful cramps. Unfortunately the only way to really diagnos it is through laparoscopic surgery. I'm meeting a new gynocologist on Thursday who is supposed to talk to me about all of my options at this point. I think that they tend not to like to do very invasive things to women who are wanting to conceive in the semi-near future, but we'll see.
For the time being I am cyst-free and glad of it. To celebrate I laid in bed and read all day, doing absolutely nothing productive. I can't even remember the last time I did that. Now I have to go babysit a little girl accross the street, maybe she'll want to have a going away party for Reginald? Maybe not...
Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Watch out Eugene, We're Headed Home
Dear Friends, Family and Devoted Unknown Readers,
Ricky was offered and accepted a job (an actual career) in Eugene! We will be returning to Eugene in December and he'll officially start work as an engineer January 1st. When Ricky got the call yesterday afternoon I bawled; the combination of joy and relief rendered me nearly speechless for several minutes. Then we called our parents and some close friends in Eugene to tell them the news. Wonderfully, we had some awesome friends from Eugene in town visiting so we went out to celebrate with them and ate delicious foods all night.
I am so relieved and excited to be going back home. We will have family near by and have lots of friends and life will be grand. Now we just need to find a place to live and a job for me and we'll be set. Anybody have any connections to those things?
Love,
Lauren
Ricky was offered and accepted a job (an actual career) in Eugene! We will be returning to Eugene in December and he'll officially start work as an engineer January 1st. When Ricky got the call yesterday afternoon I bawled; the combination of joy and relief rendered me nearly speechless for several minutes. Then we called our parents and some close friends in Eugene to tell them the news. Wonderfully, we had some awesome friends from Eugene in town visiting so we went out to celebrate with them and ate delicious foods all night.
I am so relieved and excited to be going back home. We will have family near by and have lots of friends and life will be grand. Now we just need to find a place to live and a job for me and we'll be set. Anybody have any connections to those things?
Love,
Lauren
Thursday, August 16, 2012
A Bad Case of Nerves and a Need for Change
I never thought I'd say it, but I'm really looking forward to a change. It's a scorcher in Seattle today (90 degrees) and I would be melting if we didn't live in a basement. Those few unbearably hot days (for northwesterners) are about the only times that it is a plus to live in a basement apartment. I'm tired of the lack of light, the pitiful ventilation and the constant stream of noises coming from feet and children overhead. I love those children but I'd like to love them on equal ground, not underground. I'm ready to live somewhere else--a place that will hopefully be our last rental! Although Seattle has grown on me, I look forward to a more slow-paced environment.
Luckily for us that change is within our grasp. Ricky set out for Eugene this morning to go to his meeting with "the partners" of the firm he will hopefully get a job with. His meeting is tomorrow afternoon and we are nervous. I'm sure he's more nervous than I am but I struggle with not being able to have a part in a situation in which the outcome affects my life so drastically. I'm sitting here at home with Lucy and counting the hours until he calls tomorrow to tell me whether or not we will get to move back to Eugene. We tried not to get our hopes up but it didn't work. Our hopes are sky high and our stomachs are in our throats. Hold your breath for news!
Another reason that I so desperately want to return to the promised land (Willamette Valley) is my need for a support system. We need to have more than two friends in the city where we live. If we really needed something who could we call for help? The friends we do have here are in a different stage of life. They are at a place in their lives where they need our support but can't necessarily be relied upon to support other people. If I were in Eugene and needed help I would have a long list of people I felt comfortable calling. If that didn't work, family is only an hour away in Salem. But here, if those two friends bail on us or are too busy to help, we're shit out of luck. We've made it work this year but it definitely wouldn't work if we had kids.
I guess this is just another thing to add to my list of reasons why I am actually glad that we had this Seattle adventure: we learned how absolutely important it is to have a support system. If you have time tonight, please send up some extra prayers for Ricky and cross your fingers that tomorrow will bring us some good news.
Luckily for us that change is within our grasp. Ricky set out for Eugene this morning to go to his meeting with "the partners" of the firm he will hopefully get a job with. His meeting is tomorrow afternoon and we are nervous. I'm sure he's more nervous than I am but I struggle with not being able to have a part in a situation in which the outcome affects my life so drastically. I'm sitting here at home with Lucy and counting the hours until he calls tomorrow to tell me whether or not we will get to move back to Eugene. We tried not to get our hopes up but it didn't work. Our hopes are sky high and our stomachs are in our throats. Hold your breath for news!
Another reason that I so desperately want to return to the promised land (Willamette Valley) is my need for a support system. We need to have more than two friends in the city where we live. If we really needed something who could we call for help? The friends we do have here are in a different stage of life. They are at a place in their lives where they need our support but can't necessarily be relied upon to support other people. If I were in Eugene and needed help I would have a long list of people I felt comfortable calling. If that didn't work, family is only an hour away in Salem. But here, if those two friends bail on us or are too busy to help, we're shit out of luck. We've made it work this year but it definitely wouldn't work if we had kids.
I guess this is just another thing to add to my list of reasons why I am actually glad that we had this Seattle adventure: we learned how absolutely important it is to have a support system. If you have time tonight, please send up some extra prayers for Ricky and cross your fingers that tomorrow will bring us some good news.
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